Change your Attitude, Change your Life

Have you asked yourself.. what if I can? what if my goals and my passions outweigh my fears? what if it doesn't end up as bad as I think inside my head? All these what ifs are making us lose our utmost potential to be the best that we can be , to be the one God has made us for, to serve our purpose and make the most of our lives . We should let go of these what-ifs or at least try to lessen them as much as we can. But it's not that easy , you see, as we grow old and experience different hardships in our lives we tend to focus more on the negative side of what has happened. We tend to focus on the pain, the fear, the misery and all that negativity . And it's very hard for us to let go of these experiences as it occupies a large part of our brain, It's affecting the way we think towards our future and affecting the way we deal with life . Why am I saying these you ask? Because like you, I'm in this situation of constant questions of what ifs. Eve

Dreams? What do they mean?  It's up to you actually. There's a lot of information out there explaining what a specific dream means, how it relates to you and your life whether it's in your past, present or future. For me, dreams are just a product of my brain and that's about it.  I always have a dream every single night. Sometimes it's good but most of the time it's bad and every time I wake up I try my best to remember it and get something positive that I can take away from it. I'll give you an example, I always dream that I'm getting lost somewhere or fighting for survival whether I'm being attacked or chased by someone who wants to hurt me or I'm just plain dying. But the thing is, I always survive on my dreams even on one dream that I thought It was over but I did not give up and I lived. So what's my positive take away on this dream ? Just like in real life, I am a fighter, I am not giving up , no matter how hard lif

With all the negativity that happened to me throughout the last few years , I thought of writing about how bad my situation was , how hard it was for me and all that negativity. But then I look at the inspirational quote written on my wall in front of my desk that says " Change your Attitude, Change your Life " and I was like, never mind, I wouldn't feel any good going back in my past, I'm better now . better than I've ever been. and even if I'm not, I would still think and say to myself that I am in a much better situation now . Why? they say you have to live your life at the present moment . But for me, it's more than that. Your attitude now will determine how you live your life whether it's from the past, present or your future. It all boils down to your attitude, how you think and react to the things that are happening in your life. If you know the popular 90/10 principle then you already know what I'm talking about. My life i